I am glad to see the developments on this matter. First and foremost, I’d like to acknowledge the moderators’ humanism, patience, and ability to deal with tricky situations. I have nothing but praise for the moderators and most of the community members.
I’m contributing here to clarify some fundamental points that may not be evident to everyone. The “Code of Conduct” (CoC) represents the ethical standards of our programming/creative community. I hope my perspective is clear. I often feel uneasy when I hear the word “enforcement” mentioned without a corresponding emphasis on “ethics,” as this can lead to misunderstandings.
Perhaps we should reconsider how we interpret the CoC to emphasize its ethical principles more accurately rather than focusing on “law-like enforcement” (language used in some discussions here and on GitHub). The CoC should not be about setting boundaries or enforcing punitive measures, as a state civil code, legal system, or any state or international court would. Instead, it should aim to foster an environment where every member feels respected and heard.
This doesn’t mean avoiding complex topics or masking disagreements. Instead, it’s about expressing our differing viewpoints with genuine consideration for one another. While it requires extra effort, especially when we disagree, I believe our community can handle this level of thoughtful discourse.
Ethics is far more nuanced than law, and this discussion pertains entirely to ethics, not law enforcement or judicial proceedings. In my view, moderation should strive to be context-sensitive, considering the specifics of each case.
I believe the interpretation of the CoC could benefit from a more explicit commitment to therapeutic measures, focusing on addressing harm and helping all parties move forward. This approach would frame mistakes as opportunities for learning and growth rather than merely offenses to be punished, thus avoiding the marginalization of individuals based on limited information. The CoC would foster a more ethical and compassionate community environment by emphasizing repairing relationships over penalizing infractions.
Based on my experience, another area for refinement is transparency in how decisions are communicated and how members can respond. While the current system allows for appeals, the process often lacks the clarity and accessibility it should have.
A more ethical approach would ensure that members have the right to appeal and are given equal space and visibility to present their replies. Silencing one part will not help healing and can have harmful consequences. The dignity of all individuals should be preserved throughout the process. The CoC should explicitly communicate this right to reply, providing clear guidelines on how members can contest moderation actions with equal publicity and encouraging them to seek healing over pure defensiveness, ensuring a more transparent and fair system beneath the “good sense” and organization of the moderators regarding each case.
The expected response to being called out (not a “punishment” except in extreme cases) is to apologize and adjust behavior, prioritizing healing over defensiveness. Again, everything is context-sensitive, and people doing this work should be sensible of the ethics of the community at the time. I understand it’s not so straightforward.
Thank you all for your awareness.